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Monday, June 6, 2011

Bereavement ... Premier deuil




Hier les filles ont trouvé un bébé oiseau sur le balcon. Il était tout nu, et ne trouvant pas le nid, avec Mamma elles ont voulu s'en occuper.

Personnellement, je prévoyais le pire. Même sans être expert, il me semblait que s'occuper d'un oiseau tout frais comme ça doit pas être à la portée de tout le monde.

Il n'a pas survécu, et ce matin, Kalia a dû se rendre à l'évidence que c'était fini. C'est un drame pour elle, et par extension pour nous... Surtout qu'elle avait "prié Jésus pour qu'il guérisse".

J'ai fabriqué un petit cercueil avec une boîte d'allumettes, elle ne pouvait pas envisager de l'enterrer parce que "il sera triste", alors on a visité la cimetière pour la convaincre que même les gens sont enterrés, le soir on l'a enterré dans le jardin - elle n'a pas pu regarder - elle beaucoup beaucoup pleuré.

Un jour d'apprentissage - de la vie, de la mort, des aléas de la prière, des limites de l'anthropomorphisme.

Super sensible, notre grande: "Mais Daddy, qu'est-ce que je vais faire de Jésus? Je ne le vois pas, et il ne dit rien."
Yesterday, while I was out the girls found a nestling on the balcony. Very young - completely featherless. Mamma couldn't find the nest so they decided to 'look after' it.

When I got back I was admittedly a bit skeptical about the chances of it surviving. I'm not ornithologist, but it seemed to me that keeping a tiny thing like that alive was probably not as simple as it seems.

And he didn't make it. This morning Kalia had to come to terms with the fact that it was over. It was a "very big thing" for her - and thus for us too. Especially as she "prayed to Jesus that he'd get better".

I made a little coffin out of a matchbox, but she couldn't cope with the idea of burying it because "he'll be sad", so we went for a walk to the cemetery, to convince her that even people get buried. Then we came home, and buried it in the garden (though she couldn't bear to watch). I read her the passage about sparrows and hairs on your head.

That's a lot of stuff to handle in one day. Life, death, burial, birds not being quite like humans. And prayer. She's a very sensitive girl our Kalia: "But Daddy, what am I going to do about Jesus? I can't see him, he doesn't talk..."

It made me think a bit about how many prayers we don't even bother praying because we "know" they won't work...

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Cuttings


One of my birthday presents was a new shoulder bag, to replace the one that I've been taking to work for the last 11 years.

In the process of transferring my few worldly possessions, I came across a bundle of 'cuttings' that I'd ripped out of Guardian Weekly's over the years. For my sake more than yours, I thought I'd record them for posterity here (though the format may not be less perishable...)

Some of them are little snippets, some of the entire articles, and some are references to books which looked interesting (at the time, at least).

Dead Aid: Why Aid Is Not Working and How There Is a Better Way for Africa - Dambisa Moyo
The Gods that Failed: How Blind Faith in Markets Has Cost Us Our Future - Larry Elliott & Dan Atkinson
The Thrift Book: Live Well and Spend Less - India Knight
The New Cold War: How the Kremlin Menaces Russia and the West - Edward Lucas
The Duel: Pakistan on the Flight Path of American Power - Tariq Ali
Bad Samaritans: Guilty Secrets of Rich Nations and the Thread to Global Prosperity - Ha-Joon Chang
The Commission: The Uncensored History of the 9/11 Investigation - Philip Shenon
Torture Team: Deception, Cruelty And The Compromise Of Law - Philippe Sands
Don't Sleep, There Are Snakes - Daniel Everett
A Most Wanted Man - John le Carré
The Age of Assassins: The Rise and Rise of Vladimir Putin - Yuri Felshtinsky & Vladimir Pribylovsky
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'If you are wondering how a total of $8.2bn could be paid in bonuses over two years the the great minds whose company went bankrupt, what can I tell you? This may be close to the heart of the problem. Through history, great fortunes have been made by people directly taking risks on their own account. Today, great fortunes are made by employees, doing nothing other than their jobs: jobs which, in the case of bankers, involve taking on risks, usually with other people's borrowed money. To make more money, and earn more bonuses (usually 60% of an investment banker's pay), it's simple: you just take on more risk. The upside is the upside, and the downside - well, it increasingly seems that for the bankers themselves, certainly in the case of Lehman New York, there isn't one. This undermines the whole principle of "moral hazard", which was the idea behind letting Lehman go under in the first place - the need for companies to face the consequences of their decisions. This principle collapses if the individuals involved don't face any consequences.'

(from the same article)
'Having fully indulged their greed on the way up, and created the risks, the bankers are now fully indulging their fear on the way down, and allowing the system to seize up. But it wasn't just the banks. We did this to ourselves, because we were greedy and stupid. It's not just bankers who have been indulging in greed, short-termism and fantasy economics. In addition to its stretched mortgage borrowing, Britain has half of all European credit-card debt. We grew obsessed with the price of our hoses, felt richer than we should, borrowed money we didn't have, and now that the downturn has happened - as it was bound to do - we want someone else to blame. Bankers are to blame, but we're to blame too. That's just as well, because we're the ones who are going to have to pay.'
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'William Morris commented: "I have never been in any rich man's house which would not have looked the better for having a bonfire made outside of it of nine-tenths of all that it held."'
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'On 9 October 1967, Che Guevara faced a shaking sergeant Mario Teran, ordered to murder him by the Bolivian president and CIA, and declared: "Shoot, coward, you're only going to kill a man." This final act of heroic defiance marked the defeat of multiple attempts to spread the Cuban revolution to the rest of Latin America.

'But 40 years later, the long-retired executioner, now a reviled old man, had his sight restored by Cuban doctors, an operation paid for by revolutionary Venezuela in the radicalised Bolivia of Evo Morales....'
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'He (Greenspan) suggested his trust in the responsibility of banks had been misplaced: "Those of us who have looked to the self-interest of lending institutions to protect shareholders' equity (myself especially) are in a state of shocked disbelief."'
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'Strange things have happened during this crisis, not the least of which is that the IMF was last week praising in developed countries all the things it normally excoriates in developing nations. The one-size-fits-all model of development is just one of the many sacred cows to have been slain over the last 14 months'
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'A famous economist, Hyman Minsky, foretold that unregulated finance capitalism inevitably ends in a meltdown and slump. The world is facing a Minsky moment.'
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'For 30 years, greedy, callow, ignorant financiers, supported by no less callow politicians from all parties, have proclaimed the wonders of financial innovation. The price tag for their behaviour is an economic calamity. We should never have bought such snake oil. The consolation in these dark times is that we never will again.' (My comment scrawled alongside: ' Don't you believe it!')
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'The full scale of the persecution of Christians in the northern Iraqi city of Mosul became apparent last week when the UN refugee agency said about 13,000 had been hounded from their homes this month, more than half of the city's Christians.'
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From Notes & Queries, in answer to "What is the difference between a cult and a religion?": 'A cult abuses its members, a religion abuses non-members.'
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'What Washington's finest do abroad, they would not dare try at home: in the US, the head of the Federal Reserve has called for more public spending. The Washington consensus, as the IMF's policies of high rates, low public spending and open markets is sometimes termed, has been widely discredited. This prescription was doled out in Asia in the 90s - and the side-effects were so bad that states have rushed to pay back their loans and so cut the strings binding them to Washington.'
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'... the greatest form of luxury would be the relief of not living with so much.'
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Well-read get ahead
Reading to young children stimulates their development and gives them a head start when they reach school, researchers who have reviewed studies on the effects of reading found. Professor Barry Zuckerman, of the department of paediatrics at Boston University school of medicine, said that children who were read to from an earlier age had better language development and tended to have better language scores later in life. Getting children to grip pages with their thumb and forefinger improved their motor skills.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Swiss Vapeur Parc


Hier, en voyant sa maman partir en train, Rebecca n'était pas ravie, et si elle a oublié et s'est éclaté pendant la journée, c'était à nouveau le drame pour s'endormir le soir. Alors la blague d'aujourd'hui c'était "montre à maman combien t'es triste".
Yesterday, Rebecca wasn't best pleased on seeing her Mum disappear into a train. And even though she forgot about it and had a whale of a time during the day, when it came to bedtime she was very upset again. So today's in joke was "show Mummy how sad you are".


Même avec la glace elle y arrive.
Even with a Smarties Ice Cream she can put it on.


"Mais nooon, je ne suis pas triste, je suis happy moi !"
"Non, I'm not sad, I'm happy!".

Et pour les curieux, voilà comment ça marche à l'intérieur.
For the technically-minded, here's how they work on the inside.

Circus ... Cirque


En fait, cette photo a été prise avant qu'on est allé au cirque ensemble (j'ai pris sur mes heures sup pour aller avec sa classe!).

Ca faisait partie de son spectacle pour ses grandparents...
This photo was actually taken before we went to the circus (I took a few hours off work to go with her class).

Here she is just continuing her 'spectacle' for anyone who cares to watch...

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Cats ... Chats




Première photo: oeuvre original de Kalia.

Deuxième photo: copie de Rebecca
First photo: original work of art by Kalia.

Second photo: reproduction by Rebecca.

Home alone ... Euro Disney


Ce matin, Kalia & Mamma ont pris le train avec Christelle et Romain pour aller à Euro Disney!

Nous voilà à la maison que les deux, Rebecca et moi (long week-end d'Ascension avec pont).

Rebecca n'était pas super convaincue et a pleuré tout le long jusqu'à la maison.

Maintenant ça va mieux, elle a regardé Diego & Dora, mangé ses céréales, fait de la peinture, fait la vaisselle, et maintenant elle joue dans le bain.
The chronologically challenged may want to take a break from this blog in the next few days, as there's going to be a mixture of pre-recorded and 'live' posts...

This morning, Kalia & Mamma took the train for EuroDisney, with Christelle & Romain.

Rebecca wasn't best pleased to be staying at home with me, she probably woke up most of the neighbourhood on the walk back home!

A spot of Diego & Dora helped her to calm down, together with breakfast on a tray on her lap!

After that we did painting, then washing up. Now she's playing in the bath.

Long weekend here, so lots of time to do fun things just us two...

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Thinks looking down ... Pas super

La semaine passée un collègue s'est fait licencié par ce que "il n'y avait plus de travail pour lui".

Aujourd'hui j'ai vu une annonce qui nous invitait à prendre un maximum de vacances pendant l'été, et toutes nos heures supplémentaires aussi. On nous propose aussi de réduire notre taux de travail (et salaire) à 80% ou 90%, voire moins.

Il n'y a eu presque pas de commandes cette année...

J'aimerais vraiment pas partir, mais j'aimerais pas non plus me faire éjecter. C'est le moment de commencer à mettre au propre mon CV.

Il faut d'abord que je le retrouve :)

Last week a colleague got fired because there was "no more work for him".

Today on the bulletin board there was a message saying that "anyone who wants to reduce their working time (and salary) to 90%, 80% - or less, is quite welcome to do so, and please take all the holidays and recover all the overtime you can over the summer".

Only a trickle of orders so far this year...

As much as I'd hate to leave, I think I'd also hate to be pushed. Think I ought to start polishing my CV.

(Have to start by dusting it!)